i'm so terrible. i've had this account for -dunno- pretty long and i still haven't done ANYTHING with it except fave some stuff.
ugh.
anyway, i'm so sorry i haven't uploaded absolutely anything but my scanner decided to be a bitch and die definetly and my camera and phone are dumb enough to not let me put the pics on my pc and i don't know why. technology just hates me
this been told, i have some more serious stuff i want to talk about.
if some of you watch my old account then maybe you know i had the biggest crush on....some person, no? well, that person CASUALLY HAPPENS TO BE
this dork PrinceUseless uvu
today it's our first official and public /?/ month together and i've been the happiest person ever since the day we took our courage in our hands and confessed our feelings to each other 'till now
if i'm being this dokidokikawaiidesu /??/ it's HIS fault, not mine. his. you're a bad boy, patootie dork. eugh.
back to the serious stuff. this is a very big change in my life, or at least in its romantic aspect; i've been in two "relationships" before but eh, they didn't go that well. nor did they last long, for what matters. those both really hurt me and because of those experiences i was afraid of falling for someone again: i was afraid of being rejected, as it's normal to be, but most of all i was afraid of being abandoned. my two ex partners left me either for someone else of because what they felt wasn't love as in a romantic way and they didn't want to lose me as a friend (i still have to understand this, truth be told). i was TERRIFIED this could all repeat and i didn't know what to do.
thank goodness i was wrong.
PrinceUseless and i have been really good friends, best friends, for something like four, five years or so and we've never had a single fight in all these years; we've always been there for each other and we give affection and support one another. so it's been really dumb of me to be scared, i guess, uh? i'm such a big anxious person, goddamn-
but as much as i'm happy of our new adventure together, someone else wasn't. in fact a person i was good friends with didn't take it too well for all a list of reasons, first of all the fact that we didn't tell them right away....when we didn't tell ANYONE right away that we were in a relationship. we wanted to wait before making it public.
i don't want to tell all the reasons because i don't find it fair but i've been hurt really bad for their reaction. i thought my friends would have been happy to know i've finally found my other half? some of them are, that is.
as much as it sounds silly and inappropriate, i'm still hurt very much and angry too. this person (who i will not mention for privacy issues, i'm not that much of a bitch) stopped talking to me a month ago because they "needed time to get used to this new situation" and maybe THIS is what angers me the most. I should be the one who's mad at the other, I should be offended by their words and I should be the one who's hurt. maybe it "wasn't fair" to keep it all hidden but i honestly think it wouldn't have made the difference even if we told them before: i'm quite sure the reaction would have been the same, sadly.
dear PERSON,
i know you're gonna read this journal. it's useless to hide or deny. just know that i'm very disappointed by your reaction and i don't find it mature to push me and my relationship away. you're 18, your a smart person and i really don't think we deserved this all. not me nor my boyfriend. your words and your temperament hurt the both of us and if before we were "cold", keep in mind that from now on we'll be ice-cold.
i never wanted to be so cruel and most surely everyone will think i'm the bitch, that i'm overreacting, but what's to be said needs to be said.
=stay cool, 'possums =